This post is inspired by Ntozake Shange and dedicated to Sasha Garden, Meshon Cooper, LaTonya Richards, Nia Wilson, and every other Black girl/woman whose murder and/or abuse is barely covered by their local news.
Will Somebody, Anybody Sing A Black Girl's Song
Hey, Black man, can you sing a Black girl’s song?
I know you see the news showing us dying at the hands of your brethren, so why are you silent? We start movements for you when white men kill you. We help you shut down freeways when police officers target you. We show up at the polls to help you make history. We sacrifice our careers to strengthen the Black family. We are on the front lines fighting white supremacy and demanding equity.
But where are you? Where are you when Black men are beating and killing us? Where are you when the police are targeting us?
From where we sit, you look like you’re making plans to be our new master. You don’t care about the pain we are experiencing, as long as you’re the ones allowed to inflict it. After all, we’re just property for you to own and objectify, right? We’re inferior to you, so of course, we’re simply here to carry your burdens and elevate your successes. Why should you care we’re endangered too?
No, you can’t sing a Black girl’s song because that means voicing a verse in which you are the abuser. You’d have to sing words admitting—like white men—you beat and rape us. It’s easier to just sing a song written by a pedophile instead.
Naw you can’t sing a Black girl’s song…
Hey, white woman, can you sing a Black girl’s song?
I know you see your men terrorizing us, so why are you silent? We can’t even take public transportation with our sisters without being stabbed to death. We help run your political campaigns to aid in you making history. We sacrifice time with our families to help you raise yours. We stand with you against patriarchy and misogyny.
But where are you? Where are you when white supremacy and patriarchy merge? Where are you when your laws take our children away from us?
Oh, I know where you are. You’re voting white supremacists into office. You’re following us in parks and terrorizing our children on street corners to demand permits. You’re calling the police on us when we dare to fall asleep on the college campuses we attend.
No, you can’t sing a Black girl’s song because then you’d have to sing a chorus of your own false innocence, your performative activism. You’d have to taste our pain on your tongue, and we know how much you hate seasoning.
Naw you can’t sing a Black girl’s song…
Can somebody, anybody sing a Black girl’s song?
And not a Black Girl Magic song… I’m not talking about grooving to Beyonce’s latest dance hit. No, I’m talking about a song of disappointment and rage and pain. I’m talking about listening to Billie Holiday’s “Strange Fruit” on repeat and really sitting with the words. I’m talking about seeing all the varieties of that strange fruit… It’s NOT just Black men and boys dangling from trees. See, too, the Black women and girls who hung beside them. See our bellies swollen with the promise of new life. See our bellies cut open and our children ripped out.
Will somebody, anybody sing a Black girl’s song?
A Black girl’s song holding a Black man responsible, without lifting him up.
A Black girl’s song demanding a white woman listen, without holding her hand.
A Black girl’s song inspired by our gaping bloody wounds.
A Black girl’s song focused entirely on OUR pain and OUR struggle.
A song of exhaustion—from wiping the tears off white women’s face
of weariness—from cleaning the blood from Black men’s bodies.
…while our tears dry on faces unwiped and our blood seeps from wounds uncleaned.
A song of dreams deferred and promises broken.
A Black girl’s song that tells the truth.
Learn more about the role privilege plays in your life in Raising an Advocate 101 (Self-Paced)
This post is inspired by the following poem from Ntozake Shange’s book, For Colored Girls Who Have Considered Suicide When The Rainbow is Enuf
“somebody/ anybody
sing a black girl’s song
bring her out
to know herself
to know you
but sing her rhythms
carin/ struggle/ hard times
sing her song of life
she’s been dead so long
closed in silence so long
she doesn’t know the sound
of her own voice
her infinite beauty
she’s half-notes scattered
without rhythm/ no tune
sing her sighs
sing the song of her possibilities
sing a righteous gospel
let her be born
let her be born
& handled warmly.”
